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Cutting Loose: An Adult's Guide to Coming to Terms with Your Parents Withthan Years Of Experience In Psychotherapy, Dr Halpern Enables The Adult Child To Understand His Or Her Parent And Foster A Positive, Healthy Adult Relationship

  • Unknown Binding
  • 241 pages
  • Cutting Loose: An Adult's Guide to Coming to Terms with Your Parents
  • Howard M. Halpern
  • English
  • 18 October 2018
  • 0553117564

About the Author: Howard M. Halpern

Howard M Halpern was an American psychotherapist and author who mainly wrote self help books about severing or realigning burdensome relationships.Serving as president of the American Academy of Psychotherapists from 1970 to 1972, Halpern was a therapist for over fifty years He died of leukemia on Christmas Day, 2011 at the age of 82.



10 thoughts on “Cutting Loose: An Adult's Guide to Coming to Terms with Your Parents

  1. says:

    I recommend reading this book after reading Susan Forward s Toxic Parents to get a nice combination of understanding toxic family dynamics and developing specific strategies to interact with family going forward.

  2. says:

    Recognizing the songs and dances which entangle us within our families and learning new music and new dances or even to just let go and refuse to dance in order to survive and grow This is the best of the self help books I ve encoutnered over time practical and non judgemental and very workable solutions.

  3. says:

    When I started reading the book I was sure I would rate it with 5 stars.Here is why I give it only two The author waswirting on extreme cases of family relationships and sometimes your true situation can be only a glimps of what he was writing about but that does not mean you don t want to work on it.The style of writing, which was always addressing the reader seemed to me a bit too personal, since you might not indentify with those extreme cases The book is based on types groups of mo When I started reading the book I was sure I would rate it with 5 stars.Here is why I give it only two The author waswirting on extreme cases of family relationships and sometimes your true situation can be only a glimps of what he was writing about but that does not mean you don t want to work on it.The style of writing, which was always addressing the reader seemed to me a bit too personal, since you might not indentify with those extreme cases The book is based on types groups of moms, dads, families etc To some extent you can say there are some people who act like XYZ but I think it scomplicated than grouping behaviors and naming them There are several models of working in psychotheraphy, and I don t necessary agree with this one, although I did not see under what model is he making his statments.I was not sure why the groups that he presented in the book were picked Perhaps randomly or they are the most common ones So those are some key reasons for only two stars It was for me, too confusing and I wish the structure would beclear

  4. says:

    This was a recommended read from my psychotherapist that told me how to not continue in the familial role I grew up in Of course, my family of origin said I was self centered to not continue as the family scapegoat I need healthy boundaries I had internalized a lot of guilt and shame to play the scapegoat and wasn t at all happy in that role.

  5. says:

    We re adults We ve got the credentials and scars to show for it Such beginnings the analysis by Halpern and his no BS conversation with the reader He uses his metaphor of the dance, the behaviors we exhibit when we re with our family including dependencies, clownish behavior, feelings of inadequacy and unresolved conflicts It s a family dance.Really liked Halpern s tackling the idea that your parents are not always the nurturing guiding forces in our life that we d like One of the big ta We re adults We ve got the credentials and scars to show for it Such beginnings the analysis by Halpern and his no BS conversation with the reader He uses his metaphor of the dance, the behaviors we exhibit when we re with our family including dependencies, clownish behavior, feelings of inadequacy and unresolved conflicts It s a family dance.Really liked Halpern s tackling the idea that your parents are not always the nurturing guiding forces in our life that we d like One of the big tackaways for me is that by looking at the child within your parent or anyone really , you can take acompassionate view moving forward The book feels comforting even as it gets increainglyalarmingly talking toward some uncomfortable subjects and existential questions But it tackles the subject marvelously

  6. says:

    This book can help you understand and possibly modify the toxic family dynamics that so many of us unconsciously fall into when dealing with our parents Howard refers to these as songs and dances , and has over 35 years professional experience in helping people deal with them.He identifies various patterns of dance , your mileage may vary and your very own situation may not be represented here nevertheless, seeing examples of other people dealing with it can help you consider your own sit This book can help you understand and possibly modify the toxic family dynamics that so many of us unconsciously fall into when dealing with our parents Howard refers to these as songs and dances , and has over 35 years professional experience in helping people deal with them.He identifies various patterns of dance , your mileage may vary and your very own situation may not be represented here nevertheless, seeing examples of other people dealing with it can help you consider your own situation and how to address it It made me a little uncomfortable at points, in a good way It all brings to mind that Philip Larkin poem They fuck you up, your mum and dad They may not mean to, but they do They fill you with the faults they had And add some extra, just for you

  7. says:

    There are some good tips in here for dealing with people who you have been around a lot but get in a certain negative role with on a regular basis It was written in the 70s, so there are some comments about the origin of people s sexuality that may rub you the wrong way If anyone tries to give you problems about reading this, you should know it basically counsels being respectful and patient and regards the other people s feelings but also counts in your own need to assert yourself and your ow There are some good tips in here for dealing with people who you have been around a lot but get in a certain negative role with on a regular basis It was written in the 70s, so there are some comments about the origin of people s sexuality that may rub you the wrong way If anyone tries to give you problems about reading this, you should know it basically counsels being respectful and patient and regards the other people s feelings but also counts in your own need to assert yourself and your own feelings

  8. says:

    This was an illuminating book that helped me to see the different toxic ways in which my parents relate to me and I to them as well as the price that I m paying for it I will read it again as I keep becomingandindependent from them, emotionally and financially.

  9. says:

    Great book, very helpful

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